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		<title>Meaningless Under The Sun</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Why our motivations and intentions will make all the difference. ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://vantagepoint.com.sg/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Meaningless400.jpg" alt="Meaningless400" title="Meaningless400" width="400" height="442" class="alignright size-full wp-image-1679" />The Middle Eastern sage concludes his lifelong observation on human existence with the exasperated cry, <em>&#8220;Everything is utterly meaningless!&#8221;</em> And that, after having sampled the titillation of sensual pleasures, the success of ambitious accomplishments, the surfeit of gastronomical delights, and the obeisance of fawning followers. What captured his attention was the cyclical motions of nature that paralleled the repeated seasons that render human life futile:</p>
<p>“Generations come and generations go, but the earth remains forever. The sun rises and the sun sets and hurries back to where it rises. The wind blows to the south and turns to the north; round and round it goes, ever returning on its course. All streams flow into the sea, yet the sea is never full. To the place the streams come from, there they return again. All things are wearisome, more than one can say. The eye never has enough of seeing, nor the ear its fill of hearing. What has been will be again, what has been done will be done again; there is nothing new under the sun” (Ecc 1:4-9).</p>
<p>We are condemned to repeat our mistakes, end where we started, turn our wheels without getting anywhere, always moving but never arriving. Try as hard as we might, we can never escape this circuitous meaninglessness that fills life “under the sun.” The Wisdom writer attempts at finding purpose in philosophy, pleasure, labor, power, and wealth, but comes up empty. Energy is sapped and we are weary for trying to find meaning in human exploits and achievements.</p>
<p>The Wisdom writer testifies, “I denied myself nothing my eyes desired; I refused my heart no pleasure. My heart took delight in all my labor&#8230;Yet when I surveyed all that my hands had done&#8230;everything was meaningless, a chasing after the wind; nothing was gained under the sun” (Ecc 2:10-11). This pointless pursuit could be compared to chasing after soap bubbles. The bubbles shine in their glorious hue as they rise in the sunlight. But the moment you reach out to grab them, they pop into nothing. The human heart sinks in despair when we realize that our achievements and acquisitions are vacuous, and that we are as fleeting as the bubbles: “There is no remembrance of men of old, and even those who are yet to come will not be remembered by those who follow” (Ecc 1:11). </p>
<p>The inevitability of emptiness greets all at the end of a lifelong pursuit of ambition or the carefree quest of wanton pleasure. Whether you are carefully plotting to succeed in life, or you throw caution to the wind in gratifying every sensual desire, every human exploit “under the sun” crashes in disappointing despair. We are all familiar with tell-tale symptoms:</p>
<h3>Aching Void</h3>
<p>The efforts we expend to satisfy the deep hunger in our souls and minds turn futile when our inner gauge returns quickly to empty after a brief sensation of joy at the moment of achievement. As the coach to the first bob-sled team from Jamaica cautioned his athletes, &#8220;If you are not enough without the gold, you will never be enough with the gold!&#8221; You will need to keep on winning to fill that void.</p>
<h3>Nothing Changes</h3>
<p>We ponder, plan, and pursue every conceivable strategy to bring about change and make a difference. But, at the end of it all, nothing changes. That was what Elijah experienced. After a big showdown on Mount Carmel and the power of God descended in glorious splendor, nothing changed in the palace, the locus of power. Instead of repenting, King Ahab still bent to the will of the evil queen Jezebel who threatened to kill Elijah and the other prophets of God. So, Elijah ran to the desert to sulk, stew, and sink in depression. Imagine, one moment he was fearless before the prophets of Baal; the next he was running away in fear from a woman! One instant Elijah was filled with hope for change; the next he was in despair that nothing can ever be changed. What a waste of energy and time. What&#8217;s the use of even trying again?</p>
<h3>Let It End</h3>
<p>If life is empty, why go on living? If there is no significance to my existence, why continue to be? The Wisdom writer offers his verdict after surveying life: “…the dead, who had already died, are happier than the living…but better…is the one who has never been born” (Ecc 4:2-3). He has the definitive answer to anyone who asks perplexingly, &#8220;To be, or not to be&#8230;?&#8221; The &#8220;Grateful Dead&#8221; takes on significance for those with such morbid contemplation.</p>
<p>If it is so bleak for all “under the sun,” what is the way out of despair and despondency? Is there light at the end of this dark tunnel of life? Or are we condemned to a painful, empty, and gray existence? Fortunately, the Wisdom writer offers a way out. If everything under the sun is meaningless, why not live <em>above</em> the sun?</p>
<p>That is shorthand for living with eternity in our hearts and view. After all, as the Wisdom writer observes, “&#8230;He has also set eternity in the human heart&#8230;” (Ecc 3:11). That means we take a long view on human existence. We recognize we are made in God&#8217;s image, and for Him. Life events make sense and take on significance only when we factor Him into human equations. The apostle Peter reminds us that, “…With the Lord a day is like a thousand years” (2 Peter 3:8). This offers the perspective that what happens in one human day has eternal significance. We are no longer flotsam and jetsam drifting aimlessly on the ocean of life. We are people of destiny and purpose when we are children of God.</p>
<p>The biggest difference living “above the sun” makes will be in our motivations and intentions, though our activities may appear similar to everyone&#8217;s. The Wisdom writer asserts that, “…there is nothing better&#8230;than to be happy and do good while they live. That each of them may eat and drink, and find satisfaction in all their toil – this is the gift of God” (Ecc 3:12-13). God is not a killjoy. He is the giver of all good gifts. But contentment is now possible. The change is not in outward activities. It is in the heart. That is God&#8217;s gift.</p>
<p>But, that gift of contentment corresponds with our determination to live for Him, to align our desires with His design, and to be motivated by His purposes.</p>
<p>There was a boy who had a loving relationship with his dog. When the boy fell ill, the dog stayed with him day and night till he got well. The boy’s pastor was so impressed by the dog’s commitment to its master, he had the boy bring the dog to church one Sunday. The boy brought the dog and laid it up front. He tossed a ball into the aisle and the dog laid still.</p>
<p>The pastor instructed, “Rusty, fetch!” Nothing. Religion would not make him fetch. An attractive young lady winked and in a sweet, tempting voice said, “Fetch, Rusty.” The dog wagged his tail, but did not move. The dog would not be tempted by sex. A bank president came and tried, but money could not move the dog. Finally, the boy said, “Fetch, Rusty,” and the dog shot down the aisle and got the ball. </p>
<p><em>Who</em> are you fetching for? Who are you living for? What motivates you?</p>
<p>That makes the difference between contentment and meaningless, miserable business. That makes the difference between living &#8220;under the sun&#8221; and &#8220;above the sun.&#8221;</p>
<p><em>The New International Version of the Bible has been referenced.</em></p>
<p><em>Peter Chao is the Founder-President of Eagles Communications.</em></p>
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		<title>Voice Conditioning</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Sep 2011 19:30:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In an era where everyone who is connected to the Internet has a voice, how conditioned are we to hear His voice?]]></description>
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<p>Our culture tells us to listen to the majority. </p>
<p>However, there is a tendency for crowds to tell a lie. Somehow, the more people there are, the less truth there is. The promise made between two people in a relationship of trust is more likely to be kept than a pre-election assurance made by a politician to his audience. Crowds seem to be unreliable in discerning and reflecting the truth.</p>
<p>Yet the numbers game is important to us. The selling of a million copies is accepted as evidence that the book is excellent and important. The behavior of the majority of people is considered proof of an issue’s legitimacy. Approval by the masses is an accreditation. If it is acceptable to most, then it must be right!</p>
<p>History, however, reveals that <em>truth is reduced in crowds</em>. Frequently, truth is flattened to fit a slogan to agitate the masses. Jesse Jackson’s election rhetoric, “The time has come for us to move from the poor house to the White House” is spectacular and inspiring, but it leaves the gap in between too wide to be credible. To be sure, there is truth in the sentiment; but it is reduced. </p>
<p><em>Truth is also distorted by crowds</em>. Mobs have a tendency to go off on a tangent. Mass hysteria sways not just the emotions but also the will. The crowd may gather to crusade a just cause, but in the process, the swelling number justifies anything they do. Witness the riots protesting against the Japanese in China some time ago. While there is reason for their anger over the whitewashing of past atrocities in East and Southeast Asia in Japanese textbooks, there cannot be justification for violence by the crowds. Truth is bent to fan passions and feed prejudice in concerns unrelated to the reasons for the riots. </p>
<p><em>Crowds make us passive</em>. They have strong persuasive powers to make us conform. We bend to their will without thinking. When crowds tell us to get ahead at all cost, even at others’ expense, we believe it instinctively. We do not think of long term consequences. We let others do the thinking for us. We even allow that in our spiritual experiences. We let the religious pundits dictate to us the shape and feel of a spiritual encounter. We allow the spiritual charlatans to inflict guilt on us when we uncritically accept their verdict that <em>their</em> prayers for us are not answered because we have hidden sins in our lives. In Old Testament days, when a prophet’s word does not correspond with reality, the prophet is stoned to death. Today, the blame lies squarely on others! Our passivity has permitted modern witchdoctors who are not accountable to anyone, and freely prey on those who will not think and discern for themselves simply because the majority in the church behave in the same way. To be any different than the crowds is to invite alienation. We are unfamiliar with the Bereans, who were of noble character because they “received the message…and examined the Scriptures every day to see if what Paul said was true” (Acts 17:11). When we do not verify truth, the crowds have molded us.</p>
<p>While we cannot avoid being in crowds, we can keep from being <em>crowd conditioned</em>. The crowds need not shape our values. We do not have to trade in our names for a number. We must not exchange our souls for our salaries. We resist being molded by the crowds by listening to a different voice. That voice usually comes quietly, but distinctly to those accustomed to it. </p>
<p>That voice promised Abraham a son when the crowds would have concluded that impossible. And from that son, a great nation. Not only a son, but real estate too. “Lift up your eyes from where you are and look north and south, east and west. All the land that you see I will give to you and your offspring…” (Gen 13:14-15).</p>
<p>While resting, he heard the voice calling his name, “<em>Samuel, Samuel</em>.” Although Samuel was unable to identify it as God’s voice, that voice was distinct. Here is a comforting assurance that we never need worry about being too unspiritual to hear His voice. It is always clear.</p>
<p>When Elijah, the “prophet of fire” was overwhelmed by discouragement, he was refreshed and rejuvenated by the Lord’s revelation, which came not in a strong wind, nor the earthquake, but in a still, small voice. </p>
<p>His voice brings to us a vision for mission, resources adequate for any challenge, and encouragement in weakness. So instead of being conditioned by crowds around us, we should actively seek to be shaped by His voice. </p>
<p>Pliny the Elder once said that the Romans, when they could not make a building beautiful, made it big. That is what the crowds tell us to do: “If we cannot live meaningfully, amass more. So we add dollars to our income, activities to our schedule, and appointments to our calendar. And the quality of life diminishes with each addition. To one who pulled down his barn to make it a bigger, more technically sophisticated warehouse, Jesus said, “<em>You fool</em>!”</p>
<p>If we are to be effective leaders of God’s people, we need to hear clearly what God is saying. Otherwise we will be discouraged by detractors, confused by conflicting opinions, or deluded by our egos. We need to cultivate sensitivity to His voice, so that we will be alerted at His slightest prompting. Being conditioned to His voice is the distinctively significant sign that we belong to Him. Our Lord asserts, “My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me” (Jn 10:27). When we are attuned to His voice, we will not be confused by the contradictory, clamoring shrieks around us. We can be resolute, certain and directed in our lives and in our leadership.  </p>
<p>We all desire an intimate relationship with God. Too frequently we have resorted to animistic practices, which is the upbringing most of us in East and Southeast Asia come from. In animism, we seek to control the deities by bribing them with offerings so they will maximize our good luck and minimize our bad luck. The deities wield supernatural power, so the one who can serve our purposes best will get our allegiance and oblations. But, it is our agenda that the supernatural powers will serve.</p>
<p>In biblical faith, the converse is true. When we worship, we surrender ourselves to God and His purposes. We do <em>not</em> control Him; we yield to Him. But, we do so willingly, because the God of the Bible is not capricious, but a loving Father. He “…so loved…that he gave his one and only Son…” (Jn 3:16). In giving His only Son, God is not remote but is <em>Emmanuel</em>, God with us. Therefore we do not surrender to a tyrant, but to a loving God. In yielding control of our lives to Him, we enter a relationship with Him that is marked by intimate dialog. His voice becomes <em>symphonic</em>: responsive, attentive, interactive, concerned, integrative, assuring, instructive, and harmonious. </p>
<p>To the compromising Laodicean church, the Risen Christ invites: “I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in and eat with him, and he with me” (Rev 3:20). His promise still stands today. If we <em>hear</em> His voice, we will be nurtured and fulfilled in every conceivable way, and be the truly free persons we were meant to be. We will be effective leaders in fulfilling God’s purposes for His Church and His people. </p>
<p>To be conditioned to hear His voice is the mark of spiritual intimacy and fulfillment. To be conditioned by His voice is to live by faith, and to live outside the control and the frenzy of the confusion in the crowds of the world. To be conditioned by His voice is to be true to our leadership obligation.</p>
<p><em>Peter Chao is the Founder-President of Eagles Communications.</em></p>
<p><em>The New International Version of the Bible has been referenced.</em></p>
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		<title>People Decisions</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Jul 2011 10:00:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes the most difficult questions are not about things, problems or even theology. It is about people.]]></description>
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<p>The essence and core of a leader&#8217;s work is to make contextually informed decisions. Noel Tichy and Warren Bennis in their book, <em>Judgment</em>, assert that &#8220;with good judgment, little else matters. Without it, nothing else matters.&#8221; Leaders make strategic decisions in the face of ambiguity and uncertainty, conflicting demands, and under the pressure of time. The reality facing the leader is always messy, requiring a resolute decision. And, the decision taken will have pivotal consequences for the organization. It is not surprising then, that Tichy and Bennis are convinced that &#8220;a keen sense of judgment is what makes or breaks a leader.&#8221;</p>
<p>Michael Useem says that &#8220;making good and timely leadership decisions&#8230;has long been recognized&#8230;as a defining aspect of leadership.&#8221; Leaders are defined and remembered by the decisions they make. Harry Truman is memorialized by his decision to drop the Atomic Bomb. Watergate marked the presidency of Richard Nixon. In spite of all the good foreign policies during the Bill Clinton presidency, he is remembered for the Monica Lewinsky debacle. Roberto Goizueta of Coca Cola was demonized for New Coke but was reinstated as a corporate superstar with Coke Classic. Carly Fiorina has her role in “destroying HP’s redoubtable culture” immortalized. </p>
<p>Perhaps the most difficult decisions leaders have to make are judgment calls about people. People decisions take precedence over strategy decisions. If there are no stakeholders committed to the vision and values of the organization, then however good the strategies are, they would not be executed. At the end of it all, it is the people who would fulfill the purposes of any organization. A good team member can correct what is going awry in an organization while a bad one can derail the most brilliant strategy.</p>
<p>Making judgment calls on people is as difficult as shooting a moving target. People and situations never stay the same; they constantly change. Half of all marriages end on the rocks despite making promises of love and fidelity before God and congregation. The noble intention to be true to the vows &#8220;till death do us part&#8221; is easily rationalized away by a change in circumstances or personal needs. If sacred vows can be cavalierly broken today, what more vocational contracts or interpersonal promises? A person desperate for a job may promise undying loyalty only to move on when a better offer comes along. An employer may offer the best terms to attract a promising prospect only to disappoint her hopes once she signs the contract. All employers look for loyal high performers, and all in the job market search for nurturing companies and employers. But, seldom will anyone admit to growing self maximizing intentions that hinder collaboration and allegiance. </p>
<p>The economy expands and contracts in cycles. Circumstances change with each season. One will favor the employer while the next will put the worker at an advantage. In a recession, the employer will squeeze the worker and stretch the dollar. When the market is bullish, the employees move swiftly to more fiscally rewarding opportunities. There is no guarantee that the worker you nurture in difficult times at great personal cost will remain loyal to you when the economy is buoyant. It is similarly true that no company can be counted on to save your job when the bears are prowling.</p>
<p>Not only will economic circumstances change, but personal conditions are subject to shifts. Different seasons in life present needs that must be addressed, requiring a change in social and geographic realities. Emotional insecurities or psychological challenges may demand a change of context so the person can flourish. Intractable conflicts always change the emotional and social terrain of the people involved, and their shared space at work or home. There are so many factors that leaders have to bear in mind when making decisions on the people they are responsible for.</p>
<p>How then do leaders make judgment calls on people? Here is what I find to be most helpful:</p>
<h3>1. Clarify Your Own Intentions</h3>
<p>While we know cognitively that we must respect the image of God in others when we interact with them, the reality is that in most situations, it is the disfigured image of God in both parties that are engaging in a human exchange. Hence, the suspicions and misgivings in any interaction. I find it necessary to understand my own intentions when I relate or discuss with anyone. If my intentions are compromised, I find myself more suspicious of the other&#8217;s motives. When I am more certain of my own grounds, I find it easier to foster trust.</p>
<p>When my conscience is clear, and I genuinely want a win-win situation, and I desire the other person to succeed, I find I make decisions more swiftly and correctly. Even in bad situations, I have not regretted my judgment calls on people once my own moral intentions are clear to me.</p>
<h3>2. Understand Where the Other Person is Coming From</h3>
<p>It is critical to seek to understand the intentions of the person you are interacting with, although that is very difficult. Very frequently, we can understand better when we consider the past experiences of the person. A corporate executive with no responsibility for the payroll of the company will have different intentions going into a business venture from an entrepreneur who is regularly exposed to fiscal risks. His experience shapes his intentions and behavior. This reality can be extrapolated to any human situation to predict how a person will respond and behave.</p>
<p>Spiritualizing intentions makes it more confusing to arrive at helpful people decisions. It is possible to use spiritual language to disguise manipulative or devious intentions. It takes spiritual discernment to sift and weigh words in human interaction. But, once the other person&#8217;s intentions can be estimated, a judgment call follows readily. I have made the uncanny discovery that the more honest I am about <em>my own</em> intentions, the clearer I can discern another&#8217;s motives. Both are unequivocally linked.</p>
<h3>3. The Right Decision at <em>that</em> Time</h3>
<p>Only God makes the right decision for all of time. Mere mortals have to be satisfied with making people decisions that are right only for the moment. The schoolmaster who judged Albert Einstein slow and uneducable may have been right <em>at that moment</em>, but history proved Einstein was moving to becoming a genius! Because people and circumstances change, our judgment calls on them are at best, true for a suspended moment in the person&#8217;s life story. We make people decisions on the understanding that God is gracious and merciful and we are but a work in progress. God is not finished with us, or them, yet.</p>
<p>When we were teenagers, we used to sing Joel Hemphill&#8217;s catchy Gospel song:</p>
<p>&#8220;He&#8217;s still working on me/ To make me what I ought to be&#8230;/ How loving and patient He must be/ He&#8217;s still working on me!&#8221;</p>
<p>And because God is not finished with me, or you, or others, all our judgment calls on people are suspended decisions, without prejudice on the final outcome! That may make the leader&#8217;s unenviable task of making people decisions easier.</p>
<p>I am relieved that my judgment on people is never final; that is God&#8217;s prerogative. When the person concerned turns out differently in time, it does not negate my call, which may have been correct <em>at the time</em> of the decision. When that happens, then God has visited both the person and the organization with His mercy.</p>
<p><em>Peter Chao is the Founder-President of Eagles Communications.</em></p>
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		<title>Contours Of Integrity</title>
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<p>A young boy asked his father, “What does it take to be a leader?” After some thought, his father replied, “All it takes to be a leader is to have a follower.” The Wisdom writer agrees with this simple-yet-profound insight when he asserts, “The mark of a good leader is loyal followers; leadership is nothing without a following” (Prov 14:28). Kouzes and Posner define leadership as “a reciprocal relationship between those who choose to lead and those who decide to follow…If there is no underlying need for the relationship, then there is no need for leaders.” As in any relationship, what is critical in leadership is trust. Leaders gain trust when they lead with integrity. When leaders in an organization inspire trust, their followers make commitments of loyalty and high performance. For an organization to demonstrate a “spirit of performance,” Peter Drucker indicates that there must be leaders who “possess integrity of character; have a vision for the purpose of their organization…” “Executive integrity is crucial to creating an organization with a high spirit of performance because the character of an organization’s management serves as an example for subordinates.” What then are the contours of integrity?</p>
<h3>Integrity as Consistency</h3>
<p>Integrity shares the same root as “integral” which means “forming a whole,” “complete,” “essential to a whole.” An “integer” is a whole number; not a fraction or a portion. It points to a consistency of character in public and in private; between a person’s walk and talk, beliefs and behavior, profession and performance. It describes the leader’s essence; the person of the leader at the core. As has been poignantly defined, “integrity is what we do when no one is looking.” </p>
<p>Bill George calls it “authentic leadership.” He says, “Authentic leaders genuinely desire to serve others…They are more interested in empowering the people they lead to make a difference than they are in power, money or prestige for themselves. They are as guided by qualities of the heart, by passion and compassion, as they are by qualities of the mind…They lead with purpose, meaning, and values. They build enduring relationships with people…They are consistent and self disciplined. When their principles are tested, they refuse to compromise.”</p>
<p>Such consistent leaders are principled and there is no need to second guess their response in any morally ambiguous situation. Their clear moral boundaries determine the culture of the organizations they lead. Their human resource policies are fair, compassionate, and empowering. Small wonder we all want to work with such leaders.</p>
<h3>Integrity as Priority</h3>
<p>Max De Pree asserts, “Integrity in all things precedes all else. The open demonstration of integrity is essential; followers must be wholeheartedly convinced of their leaders’ integrity. Since leaders are always in public view, perceptions become a fact of life. Leaders understand the profound difference between gestures and commitment.” Leaders must not only preach values of integrity, they must also be <em>seen</em> to behave and respond with integrity. All leaders develop a public narrative that is held up to public critique. Whether interested parties interpret a leader’s public assertions as explanation or justification or excuse depends on how high integrity is <em>seen</em> or <em>believed</em> to be placed in his priority.</p>
<h3>Integrity as Humility</h3>
<p>Jim Collins identifies humility and fierce resolve as natural expressions of personal integrity. He describes such a person as a Level 5 leader: never boastful, but acts with quiet, calm determination. He relies principally on inspired standards, not charisma, to motivate. More importantly, the Level 5 leader looks in the mirror, not out the window, to apportion responsibility for poor results, never blaming other people, external factors or bad luck.</p>
<p>A humble person is cognitive of social and relational realities. Such a leader knows the contributions of others to any successful enterprise. He is quick to acknowledge how others compensate his inadequacies to produce effective results. She is not afraid to empower others by giving them room and opportunities to peak and flourish. Humility is the mark of a secure person. A person full of himself is likely to be empty and incapable of recognizing others in his social or professional reality.</p>
<p>Another indelible characteristic of a humble person is gratitude. Max De Pree contends, “The first responsibility of a leader is to define reality. The last is to say thank you. In between the two, the leader must become a servant and a debtor” A humble person exudes gratitude easily, naturally, and genuinely. Her sincere appreciation for others and providence acknowledges the reality that we are all “clients of God’s mercy and candidates of His grace.” Only a humble person can see himself as a servant and a debtor, not a master or a patron. There is no surprise why we feel affirmed and empowered when we follow such a leader.</p>
<h3>Integrity as Honesty</h3>
<p>When a leader has integrity, she is perceived to be genuine and therefore credible. Kouzes and Posner say, “The first law of leadership: If we don’t believe in the messenger, we won’t believe the message.” The leader not only is truly humble in her achievements, but also honest in her struggles. There is no need to be on a pedestal and pretend to be someone she is not. Surprisingly, the vulnerability in being transparent with one’s struggles will increase the leader’s integrity.</p>
<p>Leadership is essentially a relationship between the leader and the follower. What makes for good relationships is trust, and integrity is what makes leaders credible, earning the trust of followers. Kouzes and Posner found in their research that “credible leaders raise self esteem. Leaders who make a difference to others cause people to feel that they too can make a difference. They set people’s spirits free and enable them to become more than they might have thought possible.” Kouzes and Posner also discovered that “The credibility of leadership is what determines whether people will want to give a little more of their time, talent, energy, experience, intelligence, creativity, and support…Only high credibility earns intense commitment. And commitment will ultimately enable people to regenerate great businesses, communities, and economies.” Integrity becomes an indispensable attribute of effective, respected, and admired leaders.</p>
<p>Indeed, all it takes to be a leader is a follower. Ancient wisdom is still valid today when it reminds us that “leadership is nothing without a following.” We follow the people we trust. And, we trust leaders who have high integrity. Leaders with high integrity energize us, stretch us, grow us, and eventually nurture us and hone our abilities to lead purposefully and effectively.</p>
<p><em>Peter Chao is the Founder-President of Eagles Communications.</em></p>
<p><em>The Message version of the Bible has been referenced.</em></p>
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		<title>Placing Options, Persuading Decision</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Mar 2011 00:07:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Life is full of choices, and what we choose today will affect our reality tomorrow. ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://vantagepoint.com.sg/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/PlacingOptions600-300x211.jpg" alt="PlacingOptions600" title="PlacingOptions600" width="300" height="211" class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1294" />As we continue to evolve into an even more globalized and commoditized world, we are overwhelmed with a plethora of choices. For the health conscious, the choice of organic foods is preferred to produce that have been traditionally grown and harvested. Carnivores can opt for meats from animals that have not been abused, crowded or chemically manipulated. “Lifestyle” choices abound in every arena of our existence, and each option is held to be equally valid and valued. It would be politically incorrect to express our choices in absolute moral terms, but only as indications of preference. It would seem that all choices offered in life have no differentiated consequences.</p>
<p>How then do we witness in a meaningful and winsome way today? How do we point our friends and colleagues to Christ in the marketplace of ideas, lifestyles, and directions? One approach to fulfilling our Christian obligation is to <strong>place options</strong> and <strong>persuade decision</strong>.</p>
<p>On the verge of crossing into the Promised Land, Moses gathered the people and placed options before them: “See, I set before you today life and prosperity, death and destruction…I have set before you life and death, blessings and curses. Now choose life…” (Dt 30:15, 19). The choices we make in life are critical because they lead to different realities. Every decision bears its own consequence. How we choose can lead us either to blessings or curses, life or death. We need to ensure that spiritual options are on the conscious horizons of our friends.</p>
<p>Since we are made in the image of God, spiritual considerations would resonate in our hearts. If presented in a sensitive and respectful manner, Gospel truths would find responsive chords in people. Both cognitive and affective dimensions of God’s love appeal to our senses. Some of us need a rationale for our decisions. Others need to feel affective trust before they make a commitment. Cognitive accuracy, while important in truth propositions, is not the normal tipping point for most people in making commitments. We can win an argument, but alienate people from God. There are few religious arguments that are conclusively irrefutable. Even if that were established, they would not necessarily lead to the surrender of our hearts to Christ. People regularly make relational commitments against reason, better judgment, and sound evidence. Frequently, their “against-all-odds” decisions turn out to be fulfilling and rewarding, making their lives worth the living. In other words, people use a variety of criteria for making decisions that affect their well being or quality of life. We need to increase spiritual options from different approaches until God’s love “makes sense” to people. When that epiphany moment is realized, the consequential decision to follow Christ is the most natural response.</p>
<p>The urgency in persuading a decision arises from the serious consequences of our choices. We press gently but firmly that we have options to blessings or curses, life or death. While even Christians in our pulpits and seminaries debate the nature of eternal death, the Gospel is Good News only because it is bad news outside the Cross of Christ. “Curses” and “death” can be sensed empirically in the here and now as much as “blessings” and “eternal life.” The intellectual gymnastics of the religious pundits in debating the plausibility of a good God sending bad people to hell do not dilute the reality of curses and death in our everyday experiences. People struggle with their existential realities despite the theoreticians’ denigration of their “felt needs” as shallow. These conscious needs convince them that if they continued in their way of life, the end would only be an exacerbation of the present. The “God-shaped vacuum” in their lives long for a different reality – one that is marked by blessings and life. We raise options that are alternatives to present realities. We persuade a decision for Christ that will bring about an alternative reality.</p>
<p>Ultimately, a spiritual decision is a relational commitment. We are not primarily urging the adoption of a creed, although the cognitive dimensions of faith insist on one. We are not persuading people to be members of a religious institution, although the journey of faith is in the context of a community, and that entails interaction with others. But, the integrative thread of faith that weaves through the vicissitudes of life begins with a personal relationship with Christ. Faith then, like life, is holistic and involves all human dimensions. It is more than merely the cognitive, affective, and physical. Any aspect of human life and experience can serve as the entry point for faith. But, the spiritual journey demands and affects all dimensions of life. As the hymn writer put it, “Love so amazing, so divine; Demands my soul, my life, my all.”</p>
<p>To persuade so important a decision, we have to earn the right to be heard. The interpersonal dimension of persuasion is critical in any relational commitment. We are usually persuaded to make decisions on matters of the heart only by people we trust or love. We certainly will not give in to the urgings of a sales person who has vested interests in securing a transaction of our hearts. What right do we have to place options and persuade a decision of such magnitude and importance? If we have not earned the trust, we end up being salespeople at best or mercenaries at worst. </p>
<p>The marketplace will be even more confusing as we have to choose from increasing options in more areas of our lives. Some options have eternal consequences and call for careful consideration. We need to raise those options and earn the right to persuade a decision for Christ. The difference is between life and death, blessings and curses. As the apostle Paul put it, “Since, then, we know what it is to fear the Lord, we try to persuade men…” (2 Cor 5:11). We persuade people to “Choose life!” We do so with integrity, as Paul describes, “…we do not peddle the word of God for profit. On the contrary… we speak before God with sincerity, like men (and women) sent from God” (2 Cor 2:17, paraphrase in brackets).</p>
<p><em>Peter Chao is the Founder-President of Eagles Communications.</em></p>
<p><em>The New International Version of the Bible has been referenced unless otherwise stated.</em></p>
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		<title>Leading With Courage</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Nov 2010 14:59:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The essential human quality that every leader needs.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://vantagepoint.com.sg/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/LeadingWithCourage600-300x225.jpg" alt="LeadingWithCourage600" title="LeadingWithCourage600" width="300" height="225" class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1058" />Whenever God directs His people, He always assures them of His Presence and urges them to be courageous. After forty years of wandering in the wilderness, the Israelites were at the threshold of the Promise Land when Moses assembled them and directed them to their future across the Jordan with the exhortation, “Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified…for the LORD your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you” (Dt 31:6).</p>
<p>Then, anointing Joshua as his successor, Moses declared, “Be strong and courageous&#8230; Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged.” After Moses’ death, Joshua took the mantle of leadership and again, God gave a similar assurance with the marching orders to cross into and take possession of the Promised Land: “Be strong and courageous, because you will lead these people to inherit the land…Be strong and very courageous” (Jos 1:6-7). God repeats His charge to Joshua: “Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the LORD your God will be with you wherever you go” (Jos 1:9).</p>
<p>Following seventy years in exile, God had to restore confidence in His people so that they would be restored to their land. The Lord asserts, “For I am the LORD, your God, who takes hold of your right hand and says to you, Do not fear; I will help you. Do not be afraid…for I myself will help you” (Isa 41: 13-14).</p>
<p>Closing his first letter to the Corinthians, Paul urged the church, “…be men of courage; be strong” (1 Cor 16:13). Paul also urged young Timothy to move from timidity to temerity in his leadership, “Don’t let anyone look down on you because you are young…God did not give us a spirit of timidity, but a spirit of power…” (1 Tim 4:12; 2 Tim 1:7).</p>
<p>In biblical perspective, it is apparent that courage is an indispensable leadership virtue. Leading in crises or momentous times can be disheartening and discouraging. These are occasions when it seems the cause is lost and the future bleak. Many are quick to give opinions, but few are willing to assume responsibility for leading change. People walk out when their own interests cannot be fulfilled, but true leaders find the courage to stay and make changes so that others can be blessed.</p>
<p>“Courage” has its root in the French word, <em>coeur</em>, meaning &#8220;heart.&#8221; It remains a common metaphor for inner strength, frequently used broadly for “what is in one’s mind or thoughts.” Courageous leaders find resolve to determine action in a crisis and take a position in a debate. Otherwise there is no moving forward and confusion will demoralize the people in the organization. To Winston Churchill, “courage is rightly esteemed the first of human qualities…because it is the quality which guarantees all others.”</p>
<p>Leaders need to demonstrate courage most at these two critical points of decisions:</p>
<p><strong>Direction for the Future</strong><br />
In both success and crisis, leaders need to take their organizations into the future. There are always conflicting evidences and dissenting voices seeking to influence decisions on future direction. There can be different interpretations of the same data, motivated by vested interests. In a season of dazzling success, the temptation is to repeat or expand the formula that resulted in triumph and fill the future with “more of the same.” When organizations are challenged in vision and resources, they are most inclined to look over the fence and be seduced into replicating others’ successful models. It’s all about mechanics and methodology in searching out a winning formula, never mind if there is a cultural or vocational fit. This is where leaders are tempted to exchange form for substance, and <em>en route</em> to the future, risk a hollowing out of the organization, losing its vision and <em>raison d’être.</em></p>
<p>Leaders need the courage to remain faithful to their vision, which is the rudder that determines the direction to go from hence. Bill Hybels defines vision as “a picture of the future that produces passion.” It entails two components: firstly, the calling of the leader in response to specific needs, and secondly, the energizing compulsion in the leader’s being towards fulfilling that call. If the calling came from God, the fire of passion in the leader’s heart will not wane. To the contrary, the leader is infectiously excited by the vision and inspires and mobilizes others to join him in realizing the vision. Gregg Thompson, the President of Bluepoint Leadership Development says that “great leaders know that there cannot be genuine power without courage – the courage to act.” William Wilberforce took on the cause of the abolition of slavery in 1787, and kept true to that vision through the repeated failures in the British Parliament until it prevailed in 1833 with the Slavery Abolition Act, just before he died. Nelson Mandela was imprisoned for 27 years while he held tight to the vision of anti-apartheid and acted on that vision till his cause ended in victory. The vision and the call prescribed the path to the future. It requires courage to discern and declare that vision, and to follow that vision into the future, ignoring distractions and overcoming obstacles.</p>
<p>There is no guarantee that leaders will remain effective and courageous. Max DePree reveals that he has learnt that “leaders are fragile precisely at the point of their strengths, liable to fail at the height of their success. A leader’s ability to be faithful, especially in relation to the vision and strategy of the institution, is a perpetually open question.” Maybe that is why Scriptures constantly remind leaders to “be strong and courageous.”</p>
<p><strong>Discernment of People</strong><br />
Leaders work with people. Where there are no people, there are no leaders. Perhaps the most critical decisions leaders make are concerning people. A leader I admire deeply observed, “We hire for competence, but we fire for relational reasons.” That was a most profound observation that has proven true in almost every recruitment and release of staff in organizations. We look for competencies in the people we hire so they can perform. But, social dislocations cause discontent and disgruntlement. Even an incompetent worker is fired only when his co-workers express frustration with his slack. The non-performer is already expelled by the community in the organization before his employment is terminated.</p>
<p>Effective leaders understand that their “fundamental purpose, the reason for being, is to enlarge the lives of others.” It takes courage to make people decisions beyond performance criteria and the bottom line, and seek to provide meaning to life, not just means to make a living. Max DePree asks, “What is it most of us really want from work? …We would like a work process and relationships that meet our personal needs for belonging, for contributing, for meaningful work, for the opportunity to make a commitment, for the opportunity to grow and be at least reasonably in control of our own destinies.” Leaders must realize that people will not contribute fully until they get what they need from their leaders. When leaders find the courage to care for their followers they build trust, which inspires people to give their best to fulfil corporate goals.</p>
<p>Noel Tichy and Warren Bennis consider “a contextually informed decision making process” the essence and core of leadership. “With good judgment, little else matters. Without it, nothing else matters.” Leaders make strategic decisions in the face of ambiguity and uncertainty, conflicting demands and under the pressure of time. No wonder we need God’s Presence and Power to be strong and courageous to make the critical decisions on future directions and people. It is this keen sense of judgment that makes or breaks a leader.</p>
<p><em>Peter Chao is the Founder-President of Eagles Communications.</em></p>
<p><em>The New International Version of the Bible has been referenced.</em></p>
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